Anonymous asked: Onision made a speaks video saying he is going to give his puppy away. What are your thoughts on it?
It puzzles me how someone who claims not to be able to look after a dog, was planning on raising a child. If you don’t have the time to take care of a dog, do you really have any spare time for a partner and kid?
Or is this simply about emotional availability? Plain selfishness? Or maybe who knows a complete lack of maturity?
People don’t think before they act. It was cute and fun to have a puppy for a couple of videos, it was marketable. Just like the drama of giving it away is marketable. Whatever, really - He is a disgusting excuse of a human being. Talking about “survival” and what not, fucking really? I CAN’T EVEN. ugh.
My reply to her:
Re: Boring In Bed
Thank you so much for writing me. This means the world to me.
This individual has presented so many misogynistic/abusive behaviors, I can barely take Youtube’s enabling anymore. It enrages me profoundly.
What you have told me just now is very important for this case - he has once again humiliated and shamed a rape victim and that is utterly disgusting.
I found his video extremely offensive, without even seeing your message. Knowing this just makes me feel like uploading my video was really worthwhile and it just confirmed my suspicions. Onision is very abusive and it’s horrible that he still is a part of this community, in which he makes money hurting and slandering people the way he does.
I understand that this is a touchy subject, but I would like to know whether I have your permission to make your messages public. I feel they would really help people understand that we are not “hating” on him, we simply have been deeply concerned about the effect he might have on rape & abuse victims. And also how there are people out there that watch him and take his words and his behaviors as them being acceptable, when they are not - we simply believe his actions shouldn’t be taken as an example and that they should NOT be enabled.
Please let me know whether I have your permission. I will respect it if you would rather not make this public.
Thank you once again for contacting me. I truly appreciate it.
I am glad you are seeking help and I hope that you and your husband sort any problems that you may currently be experiencing. Whether you choose to stay together or separate, I hope that you lead an extremely fulfilling and happy life. And please DO NOT BE ASHAMED for feeling the way you feel about sexual contact. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE, FEEL OR CONSENT TOWARDS ANYTHING THAT YOU DON’T WANT TO.
Sending you love.
Stay strong. <3
Alex
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And her reply to me:
In regards to Onisionspeaks “Forgiven” video.
I truly believe that is what we just watched. And I find it despicable.
In AJ’s defense, I understand why she would send him a truce letter, to stop the slandering and go on living a negativity free life.
I am not surprised by his reaction. He did not interpret the letter the way he was supposed to. Personally I dislike when people say “I forgive you”. It gives me a funky superiorioty, upper-hand kind of vibe. But maybe that is just me. After all the slandering he has done, he should have just appreciated her being the bigger person and apologized and left it at that.
It’s the validation that deeply bothers me.
I stand behind everything I have said about this individual. Unless there would be a visible change in his behavior pattern, I still think he is an abusive, self-serving, manipulative, self-entitled douchebag with an online megaphone, who uses the platform he has in the worst kind of way.
Anonymous asked: Thanks to you and Stevie, Sally left her TC and stopped talking early. She had more to say but you two kept talking and annoying her.
a) When I got on camera I said Hi to my friends, I didn’t even talk to Stevie. I talk to him enough elsewhere.
b) When I was on camera I kept asking RELEVANT questions regarding Onision directly to Sally.
c) She did not have more to say, because when she left to the other room all she did was whine about what we already know, which is he is a bad person and how she wasn’t going to say anything else because she was still friends with Shiloh
d) If you were enjoying it so much, you probably know that after that she went to another TC and continued her empty rant on Onision and then moved back to the first chat. I left way before all of this happened due to utter boredom. I don’t like watching people repeat themselves incessantly and cock-teasing people about how they have information about something and then not share anything.
