Anonymous asked: This isn't a question, more of a life time advice. I'm 24 years old and had a child almost 3 years ago with my husband. Before I had a baby, I was a sexual person. Now that I have a toddler..I don't know if it's the poopy diapers, constant mess making/destroying of things, or just hormones, but my sex drive has dwindled to nothing. Enjoy your sex life while you can, is all that I can say.

Hello, doll. I am sorry your sex drive is substantially lower at the moment. I know someone that went through the same after having a baby. It might not be the same thing you’re going through, but let me share this with you, maybe it helps. After the baby, she went through this period where she didn’t feel that good about herself. She was really down for a while, however when she started working on her self-esteem, she was glowing and it revived her sex drive. I am not saying this is is your problem or offering you a solution. But It could be a good idea to pinpoint what exactly is making your sex drive go away. I reckon a healthy sex life is important. I don’t know if you’re with someone at the moment, if you are struggling, but maybe, if you are, your partner might miss the intimacy.

Last year I felt quite depressed, because of a family situation I was going through and I seriously did not feel like doing anything. 

I am a very physical person, but you wouldn’t believe how long its been. I miss it. The intimacy. But I can’t just give myself away, unless I am in love.

Whatever is going on with you, I hope you can “fix it”. If you feel it’s important for you. 

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